Why the Taboo Around Female Masturbation Is Finally Cracking (And About Time Too)

Why the Taboo Around Female Masturbation Is Finally Cracking (And About Time Too)

Let’s be real: female masturbation has been treated like the world’s biggest secret for way too long. Whispered about, joked about, but never really spoken about properly. Well, guess what? That silence is finally cracking — and it’s about time.

The numbers don’t lie, so let’s spill the (zesty) tea…

The Juicy Stats

  • Around 36.8% of women in the UK say they’ve masturbated in the past month [source].

  • But only 14% of Brits think female masturbation has actually lost its stigma [source].

  • The “masturbation gap” is very real: 62% of men do it weekly, compared to just 35% of women [source].

  • And here’s an interesting one: 25% of women aged 18–34 still think it’s shameful, while only 15% of women over 45 feel the same way [source].

So yeah, we’ve come a long way… but there’s still work to do.

Why Things Are Finally Changing

1. Sex-positivity is trending
From TikTok confessions to podcasts that spill all the juicy details, talking about self-pleasure is becoming way more normal. What used to be a secret is now brunch chat with your bestie.

2. Self-care, but make it sexy
Orgasms aren’t just fun — they help with stress, sleep, mood, even cramps [source]. When you treat solo play like skincare or yoga, it feels way less “naughty” and way more necessary.

3. Better education (kind of)
Schools are finally starting to talk about pleasure, not just pregnancy prevention. It’s still patchy, but the conversation is opening up.

4. Generational shifts
Younger women are speaking out online, even if some still feel a bit of shame. The fact we’re even having the conversation is progress.

Why Breaking the Taboo Matters

  • Confidence boost → knowing your body means owning your pleasure.

  • Health perks → orgasms = natural stress relief, better sleep, happier moods.

  • Closing the gap → female pleasure deserves to be celebrated just as much as male pleasure. Period.


FAQ: Let’s Talk About Masturbation, Honestly

Q: Is it normal for women to masturbate?
Absolutely. Solo play is totally normal, healthy, and—let’s be real—fun. Most women have tried it at some point, and it’s nothing to be ashamed of.

Q: How often should I masturbate?
There’s no “should.” Some days you might feel like it, some days not. Frequency is all about what feels right for you. Think of it like your body’s own personal pleasure meter.

Q: Why do women feel shame about masturbation?
Cultural norms, outdated ideas about women’s sexuality, and even lack of proper sex education all play a role. The good news? Talking about it more is slowly smashing that shame.

Q: Can masturbation be good for your health?
Totally. Orgasms can reduce stress, improve sleep, boost mood, and even ease cramps. Basically, it’s like a tiny self-care ritual you actually look forward to.

Q: Do toys help?
Yes, yes, a thousand times yes. Tools like the Zesty Lemon Clit Massager make self-pleasure fun, easier, and more experimental. Whether you’re just starting out or a seasoned pro, toys are a game-changer.

Q: What if I feel guilty?
Kick that guilt to the curb. Pleasure is your right, not something to hide. Start slow, be kind to yourself, and remember: your body, your rules.

✨ At It’s Joocee, we’re here to make sure pleasure feels playful, not shameful. Masturbation isn’t something to hide — it’s juicy, fun, and an essential part of loving yourself (literally). The more we talk about it, the more normal it becomes. And honestly? We think that’s the sexiest revolution yet.

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